Christmas Challenges
How to Let Your Love Flow!
by Bernadette Dimitrov, The HoHoHo Expert!
Unforgiveness is the single biggest Christmas ‘love’ blockage that is responsible for all kinds of mayhem and unhappiness during the Christmas festive season. Unforgiveness is like a huge weight carried on your shoulders. It often gains momentum causing a domino effect of negativity not only within yourself but out to others who come into contact with you! Christmas is a time to let love flow. We do this by deciding to set ourselves free by the act of forgiveness. You’ll feel happier, lighter and more joyous! Relationships will magically find bridges and start to flourish. Best of all, you reinforce the presence of ‘love’ in our lives and especially at Christmas. There is no time better than Christmas to examine our expressions of love. So now is the best time to see what your ‘love’ blockage is and in the spirit of Christmas blast it out of existence!
Not forgiving people closest to you especially family members, causes a dissolving of your inner light (our love). Creating ill feelings and as Zig Ziglar would say we create ’stinken thinking’ in our mind a perfect tool to dissolve your attractiveness, your strength, your enthusiasm, your love. This creates distance and uncomfortable feelings not only within yourself but for others around you too. It’s now time to make changes. Christmas is a time to clean up the distance, judgments and walls created.
Forgive it’s as simple as that. Take your focus off what you have been judging. Remember the ones who challenge us the most are the ones that we can learn the most from. Look for the gift of the learning in the challenge. What quality can you improve in your life that is being presented to you that you don’t like in the person that you are challenged by? This is the quality you need to work on within you! Then forgive the person and yourself for all the ill feelings and be grateful for the learning they presented to you. It is in that moment that you set yourself and your ‘love’ free.
Moderate blockage: – judging or not accepting different cultures or people around the world!
Acceptance of other cultures, our fellow neighbors, other religions and other differences will certainly shake off that heavy blue mood you’ve been carrying around. Release judgments about their religious beliefs, the way they live their life or their political beliefs. Whenever you catch yourself judging immediately stop and change your sentence into one that supports you and the other person. Turn your judgment into a positive learning that supports you and the other person. You are definitely blocked when you’re judging and not accepting. Forgive yourself right now! Choose to see a beautiful little spirit in all you meet, on their own journey that’s just right for them. We are all learning just at different stages. There is beauty in differences choose to see it, forgive yourself for your judgments then you set yourself free and your ‘love’ will flow.
Severe blockage: not forgiving yourself!
None of us are perfect. We’ve all fallen over and made mistakes. It’s just part of life and it’s part of an opportunity to evolve. Learn, forgive and choose to think, do and act better in the future starting with thoughts that support the best in you. You’re only dissolving yourself with unforgiveness, resentment, jealousy and anger. Choose today to accept and implement the gift of forgiveness. It’s the tool to set you free and move you to the next level!
The medicine to blow away those Christmas blues is simply forgiveness! Let your love flow with forgiveness and you’ll find a whole new you evolving, more beautiful as you shine light out to all you meet, uplifting their spirits and truly living in the ’spirit’ of Christmas. Go on, choose forgiveness and spread the love today!
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